Intimacy and Relationship Issues

Dr. Rakel Delevi provides in-person therapy out of Pasadena, and online throughout the state of California

What is intimacy?

People have different definitions of intimacy ranging from emotional connection, kissing, holding hands, to sex. The way I define intimacy is: "In to me you see". This could happen in or out of the bedroom. Intimacy issues combined with poor conflict management could be challenging for couples. Many things can cause intimacy issues such as physical health issues (i.e. erectile dysfunction) or emotional issues such as childhood and sexual trauma.  Opening up about your intimacy issues can be difficult but therapy provides a safe space to explore issues related to intimacy and vulnerability. 

Some of the signs that sex problems are affecting a relationship include:

•    Feelings of Disappointment and dissatisfaction in oneself or the relationship

•    Emotional or sexual affairs

•    Lack communication, disconnect from one another, growing apart

•    Feelings of undesirability and boredom